Wedding night: the do's and don'ts

To spend an unforgettable wedding night, it is better to prepare it! What original and fun ideas? What things should you absolutely avoid? We tell you everything to make your first wedding night a success!

A tradition that has been widespread in many countries for millennia, the wedding night is the first intimate moment that lovers spend after the wedding ceremony. The modern wedding night is much less codified than before. What are, today, the practices to adopt or avoid for a good first night with his wife or husband? Answers.

Where to go for the wedding night?

Finding the location is the first big question that needs to be answered. And the answers are many...

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Whatever location you choose, make sure the ambiance is feng shui, as they say. Nice bed, candles, flowers and scents... prepare the ground if no one has done it for you. Also plan the things you will need: a spa or at the sea? Think swimsuit, towels, sunscreen… Want to give your loved one a surprise massage? Take specialized oil and erotic gadgets. Nothing, except a night of love and tenderness? Bring out your best underwear or don't wear any at all!

First wedding night: preparation and D-day

How to prepare?

D-Day: how to behave?

Unless you have participated in the program "Married at first sight", we dare to hope that you know your partner a minimum before swearing to love him until death separates you from him. It will therefore probably be useless to use bows and expressions of politeness between you that evening. Nevertheless, it's still a night to mark with a hot iron, so show yourself in your best light. This will not prevent you from daring to do fun things: disguises, role-playing...

Does it hurt if it's the first time?

Sometimes, the wedding night rhymes with defloration and we can then fear the pain. Indeed, the first time can hurt a little but this is not always the case. It depends on many criteria, among which the size of the hymen. But if everything is done gently and with a lot of listening between the two lovers, there is no reason to be very hurt. Note that bleeding can occur with rupture of the hymen, but it is not systematic. And it should in any case not exceed a few hours.

Things not to do

The big Kâma-Sûtra program: you will probably have prepared the ceremony for months, drunk, chatted to dozens of guests, etc., in short, you will be exhausted. No need to aim for performance with a world tour of positions that evening. Tender hugs and hot French kisses will be more than enough, right?

Wedding night: ideas from yesteryear or elsewhere

In short: a good wedding night should stay cool, it's about not overworking yourself and avoiding excesses but also about enjoying, laughing and having fun.